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Conducting Meetings

              1.  Purpose
                 Right at the beginning of the meeting, ensure that no one can be in any doubt as to why they are
                 there. State the purpose. It should already appear on the agenda, but reinforce the message.

              2.  Interaction
                 The meeting is a time for interaction and exchange, not a monologue from the leader (or anyone
                 else  for  that  matter).  Similarly,  it  is  not  for  closed  discussions  between  the  chair  and  individual
                 members. The active meeting is about discussion and debate, with the chair occasionally guiding,
                 mediating, probing, stimulating and summarising, but mostly letting the others share ideas. From
                 this, it is clear that skilled meeting leadership is essential.

              3.  Meeting Leadership
                 The chair has to exercise her skills even in the most informal settings. To start with you should
                 recognise the need to use strategies to get people involved. You should refer to them by name and
                 ask for their comments and opinions.
                 Being in charge is not easy. You often have to bite your tongue, knowing you have strong views and
                 wanting others to be aware of them too!
                 So apart from promoting participation, you should exercise control, ensuring that one person at a
                 time  speaks  (not  to  be  interrupted  by  others),  that  discussion  stays  on  line  and  that  personal
                 disputes do not emerge. You have to deal tactfully but firmly with vociferous individuals, those who
                 try to hide away, those who pretend to know it all, those who live in the past and those who can
                 only identify the faults of others and never their own.
                 Seven types of people can often be found in meetings.  Without skilful chairing they are unlikely to
                 do much to improve the quality of meetings. The types are: the compulsive talker, the silent listener,
                 the  reminiscent  member,  the  team  bigot,  the  timid  member,  the  overbearing  member  and  the
                 blamer. As chair you have to focus their contributions and bring them into the discussion at the
                 appropriate moment. The reminiscer, for example, can be very negative‐dwelling on the 'good old
                 days'. At the same time, they have experience which you can draw on, and so long as you point
                 them in the direction of the future, they can make a useful contribution.
                 The one who seems to do all the talking (if the chair lets them) is a particular problem and we will
                 look at this briefly below. But one more type we would add to the list, and which we consider the
                 second‐biggest potential problem in meetings, is what we call the digressor, the one who always
                 meanders away from the subject. In this situation you must be determined in your efforts to 'stay
                 on line'.























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